I work in a banking call centre, which is pretty soul destroying but next week, Portia and I have a 20 week scan and will find out if the very hungry catterpillar is a boy or a girl. We are looking forward to our first Christmas in our new home. Life has settled down considerably. Don't get me wrong, I sometimes crave adventure and travel but this is so much better than the extreme highs and lows of my life as it has been. All I want now is for Cat to be born healthy and to get a better job so I can wake up each day without feeling like I'm wasting the day, selling my soul to a mean corporation for food and shelter. Because other than that one thing, I'm actually pretty happy.